[From: Greg & Kathy Staley]
Eight or ten of us stand in front of our chapel singing "Victory in Jesus" followed by "I Have Decided to Follow Jesus". In front of us is a casket, covered with a bright Pendleton blanket and a spray of followers. We look beyond that to a very full room of friends and family come to pay their respects to a local neighbor and Medicine Man. Crystal-gazing was Ray's specialty and people would come to him with their problems and, for a fee, discover where their cows had wandered to, who was trying to harm them, or what was causing their physical ailments. Satan made sure he was accurate enough times to keep the people coming back for his services. But one day Ray experienced problems he had no answers for. He himself was sick and the doctors held out no hope for him. His lungs were damaged from working in the uranium mines years ago, his one remaining kidney failing, and an infection spreading through his body.
As he lay in Intensive Care his son Roger pleaded with him, as he had many times in the past. "Dad, there is no hope in your medicine-man ways. Your only hope is to surrender your life to the Lord who loves you and died for you." This 87 year old man, who all his life had rejected Jesus, asked his son to show him how to receive the Lord as his Saviour. Ray was clearly a changed man, asking Roger to pray for him in the days ahead and encouraging his wife to also give herself to the Lord. A couple of days later Jesus took this man to Paradise where perhaps he met the other one who Jesus received at the moment of death, the thief on the Cross. What a God we have who does not give up, but keeps pursuing mankind. "Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the last."
(John 13:1) Ray Hosteen died in Christ with hope and courage.
It never ceases to amaze me that all the alternatives to Christ that seem to satisfy folks when life is going along alright, fail to meet the needs when death disrupts life. They have nothing to stand on. And so they up at our door asking to use the church building, for our believers to sing, and for one of the elders to preach the service and pray at the graveside. Many don't seem to get it.
Back to the funeral.......
We leave the front of the church and a granddaughter who doesn't know the Lord gives a eulogy about all the good things Chei (grandpa)Ray did in his life and the things he taught them. She told how the love of his life was his sheep and his home way up the Canyon where there was no running water or electricity.
Then Greg, the one asked to officiate, gives it to them straight, telling how nothing in the Navajo religion offers hope, and the need for Christ's sacrifice for man. All through the service many sit stony-faced and hard. They just can't see the Truth.
The family, largely unbelievers, don't want Roger to talk at the service, but Greg calls on him to tell what happened to the family's husband, dad and grandpa. He gave a powerful message about the change God brought about in his dad. Some of us, standing in the back because every chair was taken, cheer him on and pray for the Spirit to open blind eyes.
After expressing comfort and love to the grieving family the casket is carried out to a waiting vehicle and the procession begins the slow trip up the Canyon where Ray is to be buried. Forty minutes later, (remember we travel bumpy dirt roads?) we get out of our cars. The grave is not right, according to the morticians, so while some are digging and straightening the rectangular hole we have lots of time to look around. This truly is a gorgeous place that Ray once called home. The red mesas, the white-domed rocks set against a clear blue sky are spectacular and one could almost forget that we are here to leave a much-loved man in the ground to rot.
When the hole is perfect we sing again our songs of hope, Greg prays, and the casket is carefully lowered into the ground. The family throws in garbage bags filled with the clothes Ray won't be needing anymore. The Mortician scoops up dirt with a shovel and invites anyone who wants to throw a handful of dirt on top of the casket. When they are done the hole is filled in and rounded on the top to allow for settling. Then loved ones decorate the mound with flowers and we are ready to make the forty minute trip back to the mission church to eat. We will have spent seven hours in all laying Ray's body to rest.
Because of God's mercy, for those of us who know Him, the day was a wonderful celebration of Jesus, the Resurrection and the Life. He is our Hope for this life and the next. Praise Him.
Our love and thanks to each of you,
Greg and Kathy
P.S. Last week was our 37th wedding anniversary. Greg's comment? "I couldn't have done it without you."